• Are you in a strained relationship and it is becoming unbearable, but you don't just want to walk away?

  • Sinking under the weight of unsaid words and misunderstood deeds?

  • Blowing up in anger at the drop of a hat?

  • You've been together for a long long time but things just aren't as they used to be. You don't feel heard or understood anymore.

  • You used to love going to work but things have changed. Everybody seems to have a short fuse and being at work is like walking on eggs.

  • You're new to Canada and sometimes get puzzled and confused due to cultural misunderstandings. You want to learn how to be Canadian, but you don't want to walk away from the culture from the old country.  

  • It was great to get that promotion but now your friends who used to be your team mates seem hostile.

Ongoing disagreement comes at a great cost to you and everybody around you.

How much conflict are you tolerating in your life right now?   

  How much pain are you carrying as a result of misunderstandings and disagreements?


If 'too much' is your answer, please contact me. I'm here to help.


More than 80% of workplace conflicts are caused and escalated by the ways in which we communicate and the things we don't talk about.

It affects not only your ability to work and to feel good about being there, it also affects the way you are with your loved ones.

It affects how you feel about getting up in the morning and how you feel when you get home at night.

Your conflict-related stress from work becomes their family-based stress.



Sometimes habits of not-listening creep in because you feel you've heard it all before, or because you're frustrated at your inability to 'fix' what's bothering your loved ones.

You start dreading the holidays. There's so much that no-one's talking about. Or that's all they talk about, and nothing ever changes.

Too often our elderly relatives end up in institutionalized care because the family couldn't reach agreement.



When you ask "what's wrong?" the answer is "nothing". But you know that's not the truth of it.

Are you carrying around unfinished business that eat away at your peace of mind?

Do you have unresolved issues that steal your sleep; giving you bad dreams?

You love them but you can't handle being alone with them anymore.

There are things you said in anger that you regret.

It hurts all the time. 

Does any of this sound like the situation you're in, that caused you to come to this website today? I'm here. Talk to me.  

Improve how you handle conflict                                    Make better decisions as a result                        Have great and honest relationships


I offer you a break-through experience which will increase your ability to deal with interpersonal conflict as well as help you in resolving the issue that brought you to me today.

  1. I assist you in generating creative solutions to the problem that caused the conflict that leads to action and results.
  2. I support the restoration and rebuilding of the wounded relationship.
  3. In working with me you strengthen your ability to take care of yourself in an assertive way that builds trust and respect.

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“We don't get harmony when everybody sings the same note. Only notes that are different can harmonize. The same is true with people.”  - Steve Goodier

When someone you loved is no longer there, the pain of their loss is a reminder of the depth of the love you had for them. Only the three sisters are left now.

This is the family I grew up in. My mother, father, two sisters, brother and me.