≡ Menu
Meet Delphine du Toit, Halifax, NS Mediator, Conflict Coach, and Workshop Facilitator

You do have a choice.I am Delphine du Toit

I am based in Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada

My workplace is everywhere

As a coach, mediator, change consultant and learning facilitator, my thinking and understanding come from the education, training and experiences I describe below.  I offer it so that you might have a better sense of who I am, even before we start working together. 

If you like what you read, you should  contact me, no matter where in the world you are. The only barriers are time-zones and I navigate them all the time. I adjust to YOUR time zone, not the other way around.

I believe that, as humans, we can be fulfilled only through being part of the greater whole. There is an expression for it in Zulu: Umuntu Ngumuntu Ngabantu.  Nowadays abbreviated to ‘Ubuntu’.  

“A person is a person through other persons.”

This concept of mutuality is embedded in the work I do.

It means that I am with you as companion and guide, and that I respect your right and power to make your own decisions.  I support; I don’t take over. I’ll help you work out how to change whatever you want to change and will be in your corner while you do.  And, our work takes into consideration the context of the ‘greater whole’ – the people in the communities in your life.


Personal communication by an anonymous participant in a workshop on Crucial Conversations: Connecting for Understanding (Nov 2017):  “This was so practical!  I’ve attended hundreds of workshops in my life and this is the best one ever.”

“Thank you so much for your courage to come on this first…journey as a Guide/Mentor. For your perserverance throughout the experience and for your support and compassion in the tough moments. You helped shape something extra-ordinary….” – M.M. A client  2018

“By working with Delphine, I have re-discovered my intuition about perceiving others’ feelings and perspectives, at work, at home and at school. This knowledge and confidence have improved my relationships with family, friends and colleagues.” – Bill McGregor (2017) – a client.

“One of my biggest pleasures this week has been getting to know you and working together. You have such a beautiful open soul filled with such wisdom and grace.”  – Vicky – colleague 2018

“Delphine is truly a person with incredible integrity.  She has the ability to step away from issues and see the bigger picture whilst never letting the detail unravel. In the many years that I have been associated with Delphine I have trusted her judgement, sought her counsel and valued her opinion. Always a balanced approach, but never unyielding on issues on which she held strong views. Delphine also possesses a wonderful sense of humour which compliments a fantastic work ethic.” – Wayne Woodland Global Business Services, SABMiller

“I have known Delphine for a number of years now and apart from being a good friend she is a true organizational effectiveness expert. Delphine has high energy and the necessary knowledge and experience to see complex projects through to completion, guiding teams through the entire process, on time and within budget. I can confidently recommend Delphine to any prospective client.” – Stephen Park VP Finance at Cerveceria Argentina S.A. Isenbeck

“Delphine assisted me with various employee relations challenges – I was impressed by her deep knowledge and wide experience, making complex situations seem easy to understand and to manage. She played a key role in turning our team into a high performing unit.” – Bouwe Hamersma Service Delivery Director at Fujitsu Australia Limited

“Delphine is a great mentor, she walks the talk and she managed to change one of my senior managers to become a great leader who is now meeting objectives set by him and the organisation in totality. Thanks to Delphine” August 17, 2010 Top qualities: Great Results, Expert, and High Integrity. Jayne Nyimbo Taylor   Human Resources Director, Tanga Cement Company (formerly Holcim, now Afrisam)

“Delphine has put me through an exciting and stimulating mentoring program and exposed me to new and innovating thinking. She is an engaging coach and created a forum for lively and enthusiastic discussion. I would highly recommend her expertise and service and have seen few who can consistently deliver the quality of work she does”.  Hassan Dewji, Director Human Resources, METL.

“INVESTMENT WORTH THE MONEY” – Juerg Fluehmann, Managing Director, Holcim Ltd: Tanga Cement Company Ltd.


Dal rampant eagle (1)      MSW – Dalhousie University – Halifax, NS

RSW    – NSCSW, Canada.

Alternate Dispute      Q.Med + Practitioner’s Certificate in Alternate Dispute Resolution – UPEI

ADR Member of Atlantic Institute and ADR Institute of Canada

ACC_WEB      Associate Certified Coach: International Coach Federation

Past President ,  ICF Atlantic Charter Chapter (2019)

     Conflict Management Coaching  – Cinergy Model
MajinCline-Globe-300px (1)      35+ years of international and Canadian HR and business consulting experience

– private and public  sectors, including NGOs

I am a nature lover. My heart is either in the forests and lakes of Nova Scotia or the dusty bushveld of South Africa. It is one of my life’s delights to witness the lives of wild animals and plants in their natural habitat, and to share the experience with my loved ones.

So what about that zebra in my logo?

Zebras are to me a symbol of the work I do.

Did you know that the Plains Zebra of Southern Africa isn’t just black and white?

Hidden in the white is a sandy coloured shadow stripe.  It followings the same contours as the dominant black/white stripes in such an elegant mimicry of the obvious that often new visitors to Africa don’t even notice it until it is pointed out to them.

The work I do with you is represented by the zebra’s shadow stripe.

Once I help you to see what’s in the shadows you discover that the solutions are also there, waiting for you to find them.   I work as your tour guide on this zebra-influenced journey.

Let me help you to break out of the black and white repetitive patterns of your life that stop you from changing the things you want to change. Once you have an eye for what’s in the shadows it it’s amazing how you never saw it before. Awareness is the first step. After that the possibilities are everywhere.

I help you to discover the possibilities in the

shadow stripes of your life and then to support you in creating your best solutions.


I'd appreciate you sharing this post with your networks.Share on Facebook
Tweet about this on Twitter
Share on LinkedIn
Email this to someone